When we met we were a straight couple. Alot came out my wife was a plus size beautiful woman. Interracial and lesbian girlfriend's and boyfriends came through. I was a amorous male myself it was in passing. Now that my wife is 50 our sex life has stalled and stopped with pre-menopausal. Our sex life has seized. I believe she has girlfriend's now. I understand. Myself is left behind and myself being bi looks for passion.